Wednesday, November 5, 2008

How to tip your waiter or waitress.

Picture this you go into a restaurant and your dining experience is remarkably good. The hostess was prompt in seating you (at a table that is not next to a bathroom or kitchen), the restaurant is clean, the waitstaff is pleasant, your waiter/ess is attentive and knowledgable, the food is prepared just the way you wanted it and the atmosphere is inviting. Now your bill is dropped off and you aren't so sure how to tip your waiter/ess. This is a common dilemma among restaurant patrons. Some patrons might even ask their waiter/ess "how much of a tip should I leave you?" while this is considerate, it is a very uncomfortable situation. The customary tip is 15%-20%, but if your server was exceptional you may leave more and vice versa. Some cell phones have a tip calculator in the tools area of the phone which is very convienient. Please keep in mind that a waiter or waitress is paid a minimal 2.15 per hour and does not have the benefits of sick leave, paid time off, maternity leave and minimal benefits may be offered in a corporate restaurant (if any at all). Also many waiters and waitresses are college students, mothers who must work opposite shifts from there spouse because daycare is to expensive or they would prefer to raise their children rather then put them in daycare, retirees that are trying to make ends meet or a struggling mother or father's second job. Now if the service that you received from your waiter or waitress was not good (i.e, slow, continually empty glasses, you didn't get what you ordered or they had an attitude) then tip accordingly. But you should keep a couple things in mind: 1. we are all human(unfortunately, for a waiter/ess if mess up anything you might not get a tip and 2. this could be your child one day working to pay for college. Oh, just one more thing if you are in a hurry or have any special food needs due to allergies make sure that you server knows this immediately.

2 comments:

Raising for God said...

I like this! And you can almost always tell when they are new and Ryan and I usually give then a really good tip, but I have had a few that were just rude and mean, and I gave them nothing! I do not appreciate being 8 months pregnant, and a waitress (young pretty girl) hitting on my husband, and then no longer serving us when she see's him holding my hand! lol! I've had some veryyyy rude ones! But we usually give 3 or more! Considering it isnt very much for the 3 of us to eat!

Unknown said...

Thanks for that Alicia!